Monday, 28 April 2014

15 Different Kinds of Love

Just because I feel like eating sweet things

  • Infatuation- loving feelings towards a love object that are largely based upon fantasy & idealization (instead of experience). Often when partners get to know each other, infatuation diminishes
  • Romantic Love- An abiding love for a partner with whom you feel passion, attraction, caring & respect
  • Eros- a passionate love usually involving sexual feelings for a love interest
  • Companionate Love- feelings of warmth towards a friend with whom you love to spend time
  • Unconditional Love- A type of affection & caring that is so strong that you feel it consistently, regardless of what that other person does
  • Conditional Love- A love that requires specific action or conditions in order to be maintained. For example, at its extreme, a parent who gives very conditional love would only love his child when he gets straight A’s, becomes a surgeon & has two children. The love is based on outside conditions & when they do not occur, the love is withdrawn
  • Puppy Love- A childish, innocent temporary crush on someone that you don’t know well
  • Maternal Love- This term usually connotes love that is nurturing, accepting & protective. In actuality this love can also be given by a father etc
  • Paternal Love- This term connotes love that involves guidance & some authority. Paternal love usually prepares a child to be ready for the outside world. Again, in reality this type of love is not gender specific
  • Soulmate Love- This type of love is described as a love that has survived multiple life times. Not everyone believes in this concept
  • Spiritual/Divine Love- This type of love recognizes the Divine light in everyone & everything. Love is given to everyone as an act of loving God
  • Love of your country or patriotism- This is love for the place you live or the place that were born. It is a type of loyalty & a special feeling of belonging that you attribute to that specific geographic location
  • Self-Love- This is a positive feeling that you have about who you are & what you deserve. It often is expressed by treating yourself well, respecting yourself, wanting yourself to be happy & expecting others to respect you too
  • Brotherly Love- This term connotes having a feeling of love for your neighbour because all humanity is considered to be part of a larger family of human beings
  • Tough Love- This term is used to describe a love that is expressed by setting boundaries for the good of the other person. So for example, a parent may send their teenager to rehab if he is drug addicted, even if he does not want to go. They feel that this is an act of love because it stems from a desire for their son’s ultimate good & happiness

Taken from this website

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